Broken, Empty & Hurting ......Grieving a lost loved one?

Hurting Couples


By the using the word Hurting, we are really talking about everything that causes problems within their relationship. We are speaking about a couple who are not in harmony or in balance with each other. Firstly when problems develop within married couples lives, it is good to remember IT IS NOT EITHER OF THEIR FAULT.

Basically Humans were designed to come together as husband and wife so as to procreate other humans by having sexual relations with each other to produce children and thus create a family unit.

Obviously down through 1000s of years, many cultures have developed; and various marriage customs have taken shape to celebrate this God given relationship to show love to each other and produce children.

However as we can see, most of the time, sex has been the main focus and because of stress, work and other commitments, the desire has often waned, thus causing arguments and a drifting apart. 

Most Men and Women are not aware that it is not their fault, but the bodies lack of balanced hormones, proper nutrition and a lack of understanding that we all need; to be BOY & GIRL friend again.  

Therefore is it any wonder that many couples who have lived through trauma of various types will bring these effects into a family situation, often causing HURTING & DISORIENTED COUPLES.

Many Adults have never been shown the LOVE of a Father or a Mother and do not know what it is like to show and receive real LOVE. They believe the so called Romantic view of love is the real thing and so when that begins to fade, they move on to someone else and carry the same longings for real love with them.   




Ephesians 6:4

"And, you fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord"

This is saying, we all need Nurturing.


John 21:15-17

"do you love Me more than these?” 

He said to Him, “Yes, Lord; You know that I love You.”

He said to him, “Feed My lambs.”

16 He said to him again a second time, “Simon, son of Jonah, do you love Me?”

He said to Him, “Yes, Lord; You know that I love You.”

He said to him, “Tend My sheep.”

Tending the sheep is caring and loving them


Many people live in fear & guilt and may even feel suicidal. We are here to tell you, that you do not have to feel that way, as Jesus loves all those who are broken hearted.